The reason he loses control is not out of a new-found respect for her, but out of her sexual attraction. In the chorus when he sings "I lose control" it is important to note that he doesn't say "when I hear you move," but rather "when I hear your BODY move." He is clarifying that this dis-empowerment, this control she has over him is purely because of sexual attraction to her body. In this way she is turned into an object; nothing more than a body for him to want, to consume, to control. He even directly states "It's a sexual attraction."
The entire song is full of this sense of entitlement. He is a man and he wants this woman. Therefor he should have her. This wall, this room which contains him, is preventing him from receiving what all men in our society have been taught to feel entitled to.
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